NEW! Summer solstice half day retreat for women

The Turning Point: A summer solstice retreat for women in Oxford

Friday 19th June, 9.30am – 1.30pm | Half-day women’s wellness retreat in Oxford

Close to the summer solstice — the longest day of the year — a small group of women will gather in a rose-filled garden in Oxfordshire to pause, breathe, and ask: what am I carrying? What do I want to set down? What am I turning towards?

The Turning Point is a half-day retreat for women in midlife combining somatic movement, slow flow yoga, evidence-based psychological coaching, and deep rest yoga nidra. Led by yoga teacher and massage practitioner Katie Wheater and Clinical Psychologist Dr Kristin Bohn, it is unlike any other women’s retreat in Oxfordshire.

What to expect at this women’s retreat in Oxford

If the weather is friendly, many, if not all aspects will take place outside in Katie’s beautiful, slightly wild, rose-filled garden with shade and sunlight immersing you in nature.

9.30am  You arrive to a warm footbath, tea or coffee, and birdsong. Almost before a single word is spoken about the day ahead, you are already being tended to. Your shoes come off. The weight of the morning — the drive, the week, the everything — begins to soften.

We open together with breath: a gentle, guided arrival that brings you fully into your body and into the room. Katie and Kristin introduce the day, hold the space with care and confidentiality, and ensure you feel completely safe before anything else begins.

9.50am  Somatic movement and slow flow yoga with Katie. This is movement from the inside out — not performing shapes, not achieving anything, just listening. What does your body want to do? Where is it holding? Where does it want to release? This is not just a yoga or movement class. It is listening, learning, responding: an invitation back into yourself.

10.30am  Dr Kristin Bohn, Clinical Psychologist and Positive Psychology Coach, takes you into the first of two sessions. This morning’s focus is reconnecting with yourself beneath the noise of everyday life — exploring the ways many women in midlife can lose touch with their own needs, values and sense of alignment through years of responsibility, caregiving and constant doing. Through gentle psychological reflection and journalling, Kristin will guide you to slow down, listen inward and reconnect with what truly matters in this season of life.

11.30am  Guided by the elements, we’ll decide on the day how friendly the weather is but we have options here. If the weather is warm and dry, you’ll be offered a walking meditation in the garden. A guided experience, moving slowly in the solstice light, the ground under your feet, birdsong overhead. You’ll then be invited to choose a space to sit alone, with your tea, your thoughts, the sky, and whatever has started to surface.

If cool or wet, you’ll be invited to experience cocooning: we’ll wrap you in blankets, bolsters, supported, an eye pillow placed gently over your eyes. You have nothing to do and nowhere to be. And then Katie moves quietly between each of you — gentle amma pressure, soft rocking — the oldest form of touch there is. Women describe this as the moment they finally, let go.

Midday  Tea, coffee, and nourishing snacks. A pause. And then Kristin returns for part two: integrating what has emerged from the morning.  Through reflective exercises and gentle psychological exploration, Kristin will guide you to reconnect with your own desires, values and sense of aliveness — considering what may now be asking for more space, expression or attention in this next season of life. With a focus on self-trust, emotional alignment and authentic living, this session offers an opportunity to reflect on what it might mean to move forward with greater clarity, intention and connection to yourself. 

This is where the somatic work and the psychological work meet — where the body’s wisdom becomes something you can name, and act on. 

1.00pm  Yoga nidra with Katie. You lie down for the last time. Completely held, completely still, in the threshold between waking and sleep. This is where everything integrates — where the nervous system consolidates the shift, where the unconscious does its quiet work, where the body rests and the conscious mind becomes spacious.

1.20pm  A closing circle. What are you leaving with? What are you leaving behind? And then, gently, back into the world.

Is this midlife women’s retreat right for you?

  • You sense that something is shifting — in your body, your priorities, your sense of self
  • You are tired in a way that a holiday doesn’t fix
  • You have been the one holding everything together and you are ready, just for a morning, to be held
  • You are curious about what comes next, but haven’t had the space or silence to hear the answer
  • You have never done anything like this before and you are a little nervous and also quietly sure it’s exactly what you need

No yoga experience required. No flexibility required. Everything you need is provided — mats, bolsters, blankets, eye pillows, food and drink. You just bring yourself.

Your Oxford retreat facilitators

Katie Wheater is a yoga teacher, nutritionist and massage practitioner based in Oxford, specialising in women’s wellbeing, nervous system regulation, and the particular needs of midlife women’s bodies. She has been working with women in this way for years — and her cabin, her garden, and her hands have held a great many of them.

Dr Kristin Bohn is a Clinical Psychologist and Positive Psychology Coach. Her work is grounded in the science of wellbeing, human flourishing, and what it means to live a life aligned with your deepest values. She brings warmth, precision, and a rare capacity to hold both the complexity and the possibility of midlife.

Together, we cover the whole woman. The body and the psyche. The release and the direction. The turning and the arriving. We love a flower crown at sunset and we’re both wild swimmers, but at our own mid-life points, we know that real change, real depth, real transformation, real turning points, take work. That’s why we’re offering this unique partnership – the change to uncover your own embodied understanding of what you truly want and how to get there. Led by Katie, somatic movement, breath and yoga practices will help put you in touch with your body. Kristin’s work will delve deeper still, helping you reconnect with your values, desires and a sense of self through reflective psychological exploration, guided journaling and self-trust work.

Pricing & how to book

Early bird pricing for The Turning Point: £100 until the end of May: BOOK HERE. After the 31st May, the price increases to £125.

Committed to this journey and love working with us? Enjoy a huge discount and sign up to all three of our seasonal half day retreats:

Friday 19th June, 9.30 – 1.30pm: The Turning Point

Friday 2nd October, 9.30 – 1.30pm: Turning Home

Friday 15th January, 9.30 – 1.30pm: Turning Inward

Sign up to all three for £275 until the end of May, £350 for all three until 19th June. Each retreat is different, meeting you just where you are, supporting you and guiding you onwards. BOOK ALL THREE SEASONAL RETREATS HERE.

Part 3: Restful, restorative yoga at home

Many, MANY, years ago when I worked in environmental PR in Old Street in London (not a salubrious place 20 years ago!), I had a boss who used to do this in the middle of the day. I thought she was completely bonkers at the time and seriously unprofessional; although noone else batted an eyelid. In those days, I worked for a very progressive climate change action charity and normal attire was board shorts and flip flops (unless we were meeting clients of course!). New to London and wanting to be good at my job, this was not something I was doing in the office! But it certainly was something I was doing in yoga classes.

Above is a take on ‘legs up the wall’, aka Viprarita karani in sanskrit. In ‘legs up the wall’ (or kitchen cupboards, bed, sofa, whatever), the idea is to raise the legs above the head, soothing for the nervous system and lowering blood pressure, resulting in generally feeling calmer, more relaxed and ready for sleep.

In this version, I have my lower legs draped over a chair, with a soft blanket beneath my legs, and my torso, and a cushion beneath my head for maximum comfort. If only it was normal to do this before meetings, zoom or real life, we might all be more productive, kinder to each other and less stressed!

Do anywhere breath practice to soothe

You know that feeling when you start to think things are getting on top of you? Whether you’re sat in traffic, waiting in the supermarket queue, your to-do list is too long, too many emails or your kids just won’t sleep/stop bickering? We’ve all been there. This is a great little breath practice that you can do anywhere, that helps soothe the spiralling mind and therefore calms the nervous system, reminding you that you’re not actually about to fight/flight but just being present with what is happening right now.

All you need to do is:

  1. Notice the sensation of breath touching the inside of the nostrils/top lip
  2. On your next inhale, count for a count of 5
  3. On your next exhale, count for a count of 5.
  4. Repeat 5 – 10x (or as long as you like).

That’s it. The counting distracts/tricks your brain into thinking you are “doing something” and the idea is that it enables you to stay with the practice. This practice of inhaling and exhaling for a count of 5 is called resonance breath and science tells us that this the most soothing breath practice we can do. Give it a try and see how it works out for you. It’s also a great one to teach kids.

If you want to extend this as a practice, you could become aware of the ground beneath your feet – noticing how you’re supported – and place a hand on the chest and belly – noticing how the breath and heartrate changes as you breathe in this way.

Part 2: restful, restorative yoga for busy days & busy minds

For busy women in Oxford, who want to relax and rest – welcome to side lying savasana. This is a lovely restful pose, particularly helpful, if for any reason, lying on your back is uncomfortable. In my classes, we do this with lots of lovely, thoughtful, comfortable props including bolsters, weighted pillows and blankets. However, you can get a good feel for it, using things you can find in your home/bedroom.

Always begin by finding a comfortable surface as your base. A carpeted floor, thick rug, layers of towels or even a yoga mat if you have one! In this picture, I have laid a cosy blanket horizontally across my mat, where the bulk of my body will be in contact with the mat, to give a little more padding and softness, enabling my body to really let go and relax. Having a really comfortable surface beneath you is crucial! It also means my hands and arms are touching a warm, soft surface as this position involves the hands and arms being off the mat.

From here, you need a pillow/cushion for your head, a pillow/cushion for your arm, a few more cushions/pillows and ideally a blanket of the weight and texture you love.

To set up, place a cushion where your head will be. Next you need to get a stack of cushions/pillows ready to place on leg on, so get these lined up between your hip and knee. Lie on your side and reach your bottom arm out away from you. Place one cushion/pillow over the elbow area of the lower arm. Lift your top leg onto the stack of cushions/pillows, so that it is supported from knee to ankle. Ideally you want the pillow stack to be slightly lower than the height of your hip – definitely not any higher, but you may want to test out different heights for your body. Once you have your leg supported, you may want to pull those pillows in closer to your pelvis so you have the feeling of support. Once you’re comfortable here, rest your top arm over the top of the cushion on your elbow. Choose to set a timer, or not! Close your eyes, soften your gaze, or allow your gaze to rest on something neutral (the wall?) or something beautiful (a flower, your pet?). Rest here as long as you can. Then turn over and rest on the other side.

Create more breathing space, literally

Find your calm, create greater physical breathing space and stillness within your mind

Few of us feel we have time to intentionally slow down – but when we do, we realise how effective and more enjoyable AND productive we can be, from just simply taking a few minutes (or preferably longer!) to stop and breathe! When we find a simple way to reset the body and mind, it can feel like a superpower! One of the most effective—and surprisingly easy—tools is something you’re already doing: breathing. The technique I describe below is something I use with massage and yoga clients all the time, helping them to find space in body and mind, quickly – and get the most from their appointment or class. Breath awareness can help calm your nervous system, improve focus, and support overall wellbeing.

At the heart of this practice is your autonomic nervous system, which controls functions like heart rate, digestion, and stress responses.

When you breathe slowly and evenly:

  • Your parasympathetic nervous system (the “rest and digest” system) becomes more active
  • Your heart rate variability (HRV) improves, which is linked to resilience and emotional regulation
  • Stress hormones begin to decrease

In short, you’re signaling to your body: it’s safe to relax. Breathing practices can:

Improve focus and clarity: a calm nervous system makes it easier to think clearly and stay present.

Support better sleep: practicing before bed can help you unwind and fall asleep more easily.

Enhances emotional balance: creating space between stimulus and reaction, helping you respond more calmly

Boosts overall wellbeing: supporting a wide variety of bodily systems to get the message that it is safe to relax.

How to practice:

The beauty of this technique is its simplicity—you can do it anywhere and you’re just using your awareness – there’s no need to deepen the breath in anyway, just breathing normally throughout.

Step-by-step:

  1. You might like to soften your gaze, close your eyes or find something beautiful to rest your eyes on
  2. Bring your awareness to the touch of the breath in the inside of your nose, inhaling and exhaling a few times in this way, noticing the touch of the breath
  3. Place a hand on your chest and on your belly and see if you can breathe into your hands – perhaps feeling the belly and chest rise on the inhale, and fall on the exhale. Take a few breaths here, really noticing the breath in the front of the torso
  4. Now bringing your awareness to your armpits, sides of the ribs and sides of the waist. You can wrap your hands around your ribs or place your hands on your waist to get a greater feel for this. See if you can visualise the breath broadening sideways into the sides of the torso, filling the whole sides of the torso with breath. Take a few breaths here.
  5. Next, bringing your attention to the back of the torso, perhaps wrapping the arms around and feeling the small of your back. Maybe you can notice the touch of your waistbands or bra-bands touching the back too. Bringing your breath awareness into the back of the torso, try expanding the breath backwards – as though your lungs are filling the back of the torso. Perhaps you can visualise the spine filling with breath. Breathing here a few times.
  6. Allowing the breath to return to normal
  7. And when you’re ready allowing your awareness to gently rest on those three areas, the front, sides and back of the torso, and allow your breath to lightly touch all those places at the same time.
  8. Try taking 5 – 10 breaths in this way, into the whole of the space available for the breath
  9. Allow the breath to return to normal
  10. Notice how you feel now

Tips for getting started:

  • Don’t force the breath. Keep it smooth and natural, not strained.
  • Use a timer, try for 2 minutes
  • Place a hand on your body or notice clothing touching those areas mentioned: This can help you stay connected to your breath.
  • Start small. Even 2–3 minutes can make a difference.